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How oral historians actually run an interview, and how to capture a life story before the chance goes.

how to interview your parents

How Do You Interview Your Parents?

Ask open questions chronologically, record rather than take notes, and let silence run. Sessions of 60 to 90 minutes across several visits beat one long interview.

Read the guide → July 29, 2026
questions to ask grandparents

What Should You Ask Your Grandparents?

Sensory and routine questions retrieve more than questions about big events. Ask about their own grandparents, which pushes living memory back four generations.

Read the guide → July 22, 2026
how to record family stories

How Do You Record Family Stories Properly?

Record audio in a soft, quiet room with the microphone close. Save high-quality files, keep three copies on two media, and label them the day you record.

Read the guide → July 15, 2026
what is oral history

What Is Oral History?

Oral history is the recorded interview treated as a primary source, capturing first-person experience documents omit. It has standards for consent, method and preservation.

Read the guide → July 8, 2026
preserve old family photos

How Do You Preserve Old Family Photographs?

Store originals flat in acid-free enclosures somewhere cool, dark and dry. Avoid adhesive albums. Scan at 600 dpi as TIFF, and identify people while someone still can.

Read the guide → July 1, 2026
how to start a family archive

How Do You Start a Family Archive?

Gather everything in one place, organise by person rather than format, inventory it, and digitise fragile and obsolete-media items first. Name an owner and a successor.

Read the guide → June 24, 2026
how to write a family memoir

How Do You Write a Family Memoir?

Choose one narrow thread, work from recorded interviews rather than memory, and write scenes rather than summary. Decide family or publication early, since it governs inclusion.

Read the guide → June 17, 2026
life story interview questions

What Are the Best Life Story Interview Questions?

The most productive questions ask for reflection and cannot be answered briefly. Order concrete questions first and evaluative ones late, once someone is talking freely.

Read the guide → June 10, 2026
reluctant relative interview

How Do You Get a Reluctant Relative to Talk?

Reluctance is usually about framing. Drop the word interview, use photographs as prompts, ask about other people, and introduce recording later and honestly.

Read the guide → June 3, 2026